Little Updates

Trev’s “graduation”

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A week and a half until Trev starts kindergarten. He is going on a bus safety training tomorrow. His school is 1.6 km away from our house. My elementary school was 500 m away and my middle school was 1.2 km. The middle school was in a completely different part of town and I would take the tram to get there sometimes. The two elementary schools available to us are both about that distance away from us and they are still “really close”. I’ve lived in the suburb for over a decade and this still blows my mind.

Anyhow, Trev is really excited and I hope we have made the right decision. From talking to other parents and teachers, the school he is going to is decent (better than the alternatives in the neighbourhood anyhow). A lot of his friends from the daycare, including one of his two best friends, will be going there and the school has just introduced grade 4 french immersion so we will not need to move him to another school if we decide to put him in that program.

Penguins

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Despite the penguin fever that swept his older brother, Owen is indifferent. I made a penguin suit for him, but so far he is not interested in wearing it.

I found that I really enjoyed sewing these. Now that the seeing machine is out I might try and get the other projects finished. My quilting project got put aside when I got pregnant because I was too tired to sew, but now I feel a very different kind of exhaustion which makes sewing actually relaxing.

Pool

This year Chris got a really good system for keeping the pool in good condition on regular basis. I think I used the pool a bit more than previously though that could be mostly due to the fact that we stayed in Ottawa throughout the summer. We did not have people over this year as much as previous years which makes me a bit sad, but the back yard needed some maintenance and I was in no state to spend energy on it. Hopefully next year. I would like to see the return of our yearly BBQ and some more playgroup dates.

Ready for Halloween???

They had these really cool monkey suits at Trev’s daycare. Trev liked them so much he asked us to buy him one. We said, “Ok, if you earn twenty stickers we’ll go to the store and get you a monkey suit”. Trev diligently earned his twenty stickers so I asked the teacher at the daycare where they order their costumes from. Turns out that one of the teachers picked it up at the Goodwill. Oh.

Mental note: do not promise your kid you will get them a costume unless it is a month leading up to Halloween and you are physically in front of the said costume. We turned to the Internet because you can find anything on the Internet. You can find monkey suits on the Internet but they are too expensive. Or really, they are not expensive but when you add the shipping cost they become too expensive. Additionally, the costumes on the Internet were not even half as cute at the one at Trev’s school. We did the next best thing, we ordered monkey costume sewing pattern from the Internet and told Trev that we are “on it”.

Fortunately for me, by the time the pattern arrived and I was ready to start sewing, Trev hit the penguin phase. Penguin costumes are much easier to sew and it was quite easy to find a good tutorial.

So here is the result. Trev seems pleased with it and so am I. Now, should I make a matching costume for Owen?

Ready for September???

Today I filled out my mat leave paperwork. I have not submitted it, I will keep it for a few days to make sure I am happy with the dates but essentially it is all done.

Trevor is supposed to start school in September and the week (we think) he starts will be the first week of my mat leave. Despite the fact that I am not sold on the whole concept of kindergarten, I am really excited for Trev. I almost cried today when I was thinking about how he is moving on to a new school. I am really nervous and hope that it all goes well.

Safety

I have been wanting to write a bike safety post for months, but there is so much to talk about with respect to bike safety, that I could not get a post of readable length together. Fortunately, someone has already done it for me. This post comes as close as anything to how I feel about family cycling.

Then there is the pregnancy. Do I recommend cycling while pregnant? Heck yes! (Assuming that your ob/gyn approves it, which mine did). When I got pregnant with Trev, I soon stopped biking and going to the gym. I was simply too tired to do any of it. I stopped biking even before I realised I was pregnant because I just could not huff it in the athletic way I did before kids. I did prenatal yoga, which is better than nothing, but half a year of very little physical activity made it very difficult for me to recover form giving birth and thanking care of an infant. It took me a year or longer to regain any energy whatsoever. For those not in the know, a year without having energy to do all that you need to get done sucks.

With Owen I was prepared so I kept cycling in the summer and took spinning courses in the fall. By now I knew how to exercise while pregnant so I took that into the account. The endurance I’ve built up in spinning got me through the birth without drugs and I bounced back much, much sooner than the first time. So far, in this pregnancy, cycling has made me stay physically fit. This was particularly important since my hips readjusted very early (around 4 months) making it quite uncomfortable to walk (I’ve been wobbling for more than half the pregnancy). If I don’t cycle for several days I get sore, the muscles in my legs seize up during the night and I am generally grumpy. The weeks this summer when I was recovering from stomach flu or when it was too hot and humid to go outside or when my bike was broken were the worst this summer.

Are there risks? Sure, but like any other activity, you balance them out with the benefits. Car accidents are one of the leading cause of accidental deaths for children yet we still strap our little ones into the car several times a day every day. I’ve yet to meet someone who chooses to not drive for the fear of death and if I did I would think that they suffer from paranoia rather than making a rational decision. It is the same with biking. Like with the car, you make sure that your bike is in good working order and you ride in a way that you believe is safe. With biking the question really comes down to what you believe is safe and what you feel comfortable with.

With this in mind I took the CAN-bike course this weekend. The first section of the course consisted of theoretical part, then we did some drills and finally we went out on the road. We drove a bit around Centrepointe area and then hit Woodroffe, Medowlands and Hunt Club. We stopped biking about an hour earlier than scheduled because both Charissa and I were tired. This, I believe, had mostly to do with our bikes not being suited for long rides. According to the instructor’s bike computer we did about 18km, but she didn’t do the drills so I think Charissa and I must have done at least 20km if not more which is usually the limit of what I can do on my utility bike. We did all of the tasks except merging over four lanes of busy traffic to turn left, mostly because our bikes are too slow and we were getting tired. Frankly, I have no intention of merging over four lanes of traffic at this point in my life so no skin off of my nose. At least I know in theory how to do it.

Was it worth taking the course? I didn’t learn a lot of new things, which was in line with my expectations. I did learn a couple of new things and I corrected some minor impressions. Overall, I took the course to ensure that I am aware of “best practices” and to make sure I am as aware as I think I am of safety issues. In that sense the course delivered what I expected so it was worth it for me. Would I recommend it for others? If you think that you would learn from it, than it is probably worth it. I will definitely insist that our kids take the children’s version of the course once they are old enough and I would definitely recommend it for other people’s kids (because I am nosy that way…).

Possible baby names

We have a little bit over a month until the baby is expected and we are still not anywhere near having any idea what to call him.

Here is the brief list of names we have not discarded as of yet:

Bryce
Camden
Cameron
Douglas
Dylan
Liam
Logan
Lucas
Markus
Stuart

Overall, I am doing well but I find myself slowing down.

Spot the differences in the two pictures

I had all the intention of blogging about the above picture a few weeks ago after we came back from the medieval festival, mostly for my sister’s amusement, but then I had stuff to do and it became old news.

However, today, my sister posted (completely unaware of the first one) a matching picture on her blog and now I have no choice but to compare and contrast.

See those three figures in centre right of the above photo? Those are the paramedics monitoring the jousting match. It was a little bit after 1PM on a stupidly hot day and they were standing there all straight and strict looking with no hats on. Frankly, I was more worried about the paramedics suffering from heat stroke than the metal-clad guys knocking each other off the horse with a stick.

And here is the contrasting picture (shamelessly stolen from “Sjever i Jug”)
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So, the similarities… Three paramedics/emergency room doctors in uniform, one girl, two sameish looking guys observing a subcultural sporting event (for non-Croatian speaking public, the second picture is from youth firefighters games). The differences are striking also, though the Canadians have a much neater uniform, the Croatian team is at least dressed for the weather. Look at them all smiling and relaxed, leaning against the fence amongst the crowd.