Film – Mamma Mia!

I’ve driven to Museum of Civilization and back this Sunday. It is a 48km ride all together. Here are some of my thoughts:

– When going for a bike ride always bring pick-nick lunch. You never know how far you’ll go or how long you’ll stay. When I set out for the ride, I planned to not go further than Andrew Hayden park about 20 minutes out of Kanata. An hour later, I was in Gatineau.

– Always have a list of different places where you can go during the high sun hours. Museum of Civilization was perfect because it had a lot of space for Trevor to run around in and for us to have lunch. Some exhibits, such as the First People’s Hall, are free so if you’ve already been to the Children’s Museum twice that month, you can save the $10 fee and still have a nice noon hour.

– Child proof museums are the best thing ever for parents with active toddlers. National Arts Gallery was a bit of a challenge because of lack of interest and exposed artwork, but Museum of Civilization (particularly Children’s Museum section), Natural History Museum and Museum of Technology are all a hit. I have to consider getting the family membership as the fees run in $10 range.

– the section between Corkstown and Beaverbrook is the most boring bike path ever. Plus there’s a strange wind angle which makes biking really hard. Not pleasant at all after you’ve already been biking for three hours. Next time I might even consider biking the Corkstown road hill, just to avoid it.

– I was somewhat divided between bike trailers and toddler seats you put on the back of the bike. I’d still like to try the bike seat. Trevor either falls asleep or complains in the trailer which he probably wouldn’t do in the seat. This is good or bad depending on the plans for the day. On the way back he lied down sideways on the little bench in the trailer. How he managed to do that while tied with a 5-point harness is beyond me but he seemed insistent on that position. Trailer was quite convenient in that I could bring a backpack and my proper purse with me (perhaps even a change of clothes). I had a pick-nick blanket and some toys there too, just in case. When we went to the museum, I took it with us as a stroller. I don’t know if I would be comfortable enough leaving it locked with the bike. It was a hit at the museum, some Japanese tourists and later a little boy thought it was an exhibit and started pushing it around.

– I really want to get some cycling shorts. I did not feel like I needed them before while I was biking to Carleton, but I would have been much more comfortable while pulling the trailer. I didn’t feel that pulling the trailer was too much work, but I did ride much slower than usual and I felt quite exhausted the next day.

Film – Something, something Zohan

I have a tendency to dislike team outings at work because they tend to be awkward. I just came back from my first team outing with my grad school lab dwellers and all awkwardness was done away with by not actually hanging out together. Admittedly, I missed the “picking up the sandwiches” part because I had to get Trev from daycare and ready for the babysitter. Then we drove to the cinema close to Carleton where we met up with everyone only to end up hanging out alone with Chris because everyone watched a different movie. It wasn’t really avoidable because the film that everyone wanted to see was sold out and the rest of the people had seen some subset of the remaining movies. Two of our group were in the same theater as us, but they were sitting two rows away even though I saved them seats. I could have just gone to AMC Kanata with Chris when my mom was in town. That would have saved me $35 in babysitting money and a ride across town in post rush hour traffic. Grumble… Fortunately, Chris and I enjoyed spending time together and watching the movie.

Last weekend Chris, Trev and I went to the Art in the Park. There were a lot of babies in slings which made me think of Trev last summer when I would snuggle him with me. I remember him being really calm, but I doubt that he was. It wasn’t so long ago and yet I feel I have forgotten it all.

Film – Fellini’s Roma

Watching this film on big screen was a blast. The version played had bad and faded English voice over for the narrator but the dialog was in Italian. Additionally the reel was not stored properly so the film was brittle and kept breaking. However, the experience was great. I love watching movies in the cinema and this is a great example of how much fun it could be.

Trev and me
This picture has nothing to do with the movie, I just like how it turned out. Trev is all “oh, mommy is hugging me again…”.

Snowed in

Snow

There is so much snow out there it is a home weekend for us. Chris’ plans are to copy 10 records.

Records

My plan is to tidy and play with the boy. The two are mutually exclusive and at cross purposes. I will be busy the whole weekend and still feel like I got nothing done.

Duck!

Ever since Trev started daycare and Chris went back to work, life has been crazy. I don’t think I made it to any spinning classes in two months, I go to gym once a week at work if I can compass it. I do make it to school more often than not though my goal of submitting a paper for June would be much assisted by more free time of which I have none. To top it all I am going to Toronto for a week again. The hotel has a sorry excuse for a gym, so I just might get a workout.

Film – Persepolis

I had a pretty bad cold today so I stayed home. I was just about to get Trev dressed for daycare when I realised that he has a bit of a cough too so I decided to keep him with me. I didn’t get the rest I was hoping for, or the time to tidy up a bit, but we did build a fort.

fort

Daycare rant

Childcare is nominally provincial responsibility so some provinces are better off than others. Quebec, for example, offers $7/day daycare and people there are mightily pleased with it. Ontario, where I am, theoretically funds some daycares, but it seems to me to be on a case by case basis. In Ottawa, home care will set you back $34 a day and daycare center $62. This effectively means that only mid to high income families can afford centers. Only 12% of preschoolers in Ottawa are in some sort of registered accommodations and this includes home cares that are supervised by agencies. Since just slightly above 50% of Canadian children are cared for by someone other than their parents, I assume that most kids are in some sort of private home care arraignments.

There are articles in the papers all the time about ridiculous waiting lists, but my experience is that it is not so bad. Everyone I know who was looking for daycare found some. Sometimes you have to call centers directly and visit a few times to magically appear on the top of the list. I suspect that lists are inflated – Trevor is currently in home daycare but I have no intention of removing him from the waiting list until he is of school age. In fact, we had our names on the list for about four years now even though he is only 11 months and a bit.

I’ve signed Trev up for the Montessori center, but they only take babies at 18 months (though they said they will take him at 16). This is a pain in the neck since I had to find home daycare for him for the 4 months difference. Finding a good daycare is another problem all together. I found that there are a lot of people offering to take kids, but they are women staying at home with their own children with very little or no interest in other kids except for the fact that they’re getting money for something they would be doing anyway. I’ve actually had daycare set up with someone in my neighborhood through an agency. We were supposed to drop Trev off yesterday morning and just as we were getting into the car, she called to tell me that she won’t take him. I feel like a total idiot for choosing to go with her despite my husband preferring someone else. Fortunately, my husband’s choice provider was able to fit Trev in and we took him there today and he had a great time. This private home daycare provider has 12 years experience and has been very warmly recommended. My problem with her is that she is far away (about 15 minutes in one direction) and that the kids play in an half unfinished basement.

I find it too bad that there is no incentive for daycare providers to go with agencies. I wish there was more competition. This way it is really a matter of luck to have someone to recommend a good provider.

The federal government had implemented a 5 billion dollar daycare program, but the party in power lost the election and the new government canceled it before it got started and replaced it with some ridiculous scheme where as they send every single family in the country $100 a month per child. This is not enough money to make a difference to a family that can’t afford food or snowsuits and it is an utter waste it give it to someone like me, even though I will end up giving half of it back in taxes. One of the opposition members was criticised for calling this hand out “beer and popcorn” money, but frankly, $50 pretty much only covers my monthly wine and cheese bill.